Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Throw away self pity

Seriously, I have learned about about life last past year. Firstly due to Marie Callas books whom I read when I'm having my lunch breaks or waiting for someone. It was inspiring and what Marie said is philosophically right and reflect on the state of the mind most of us have. I regard her as a very learned person. I also read other motivational books and basically every belief in the word is the same...

One that I learn is that when I am weak, I will self pity myself and hide into my own small corner. In the end, I realise this is the worst kind of addiction one can have.
Self pity makes us numb to the exuberance of lives around us. At this time, creativity is dead. Our lives just stop moving forward at that moment.

When you self pity, it is not something you can be proud of but too often I see people who feel their action is right...

Right, so from now on, discard your self pity. It's good that we laugh at ourselves at our follies when we look back. Learn to walk out of it, a small step at a time, but with strong steadfast steps.

To be ‘whole’ you again, you have to move on with your life.