Lessons learned

I was watching the Olympic actions with much interest. When the athlete wins and receive the coveted gold medal on the rostrum, I share their tears of joy. I also applaud the momentous effort of those who come in 2nd or 3rd, and of course for our badminton shuttler, Chong Wei, who was utterly outplayed. At least my country do not come back empty-handed.

There are also many episodes of athletes failing under intense scrutiny, pressure or injury. Read American shooter, Matt Eamons, Brazilian gymnast, Hypolitto, and of course home favourite, Liu Xiang.

Isn't our life outside the sporting arena the same?

We got crushed by pressure and expectation during exams, job interviews, or love. I remember so vividly when one of my past relationships couldn't work out, and I cried for nearly whole night uncontrollably...

It is the strength that pulls us back the matters after that. Our mental strength to accept this blip in life and get right back on track.

Imagine how shooter Matt Eamons must be feeling after he faltered when it mattered, not just this time, but also in 2004 Game as well. But through the 2004 debacle, he met his wife, so he believed thing happened for a reason and good thing would come into his life soon again this time!

Yes, that's the way it should be. Things happen for a reason and it is usually a blessing in disguise!

Be strong!