Tuesday, March 3, 2009

When it all goes wrong..

Two weeks ago, a good buddy of mine shared with me during a hi tea gathering that her marriage is hitting a rough patch to the extent that she's seriously thinking of getting a divorce. The reason she's seeking divorce is because her hubby has been cheating on her. She was so devastated and her trust in him has diminished completely. I feel sad for her and I can feel her severe pain. If I were in her shoes, I'll be stranded in misery not knowing what to do.

It's strictly thorny to warn my buddy what to do. It sincerely depends on the state and she also has to consider that she has two kids with her partner. I eagerly hope they can work gear out for the sake of their kids. Somehow, that plainly depends on her mindset to forgive and his willingness to keep their wedding. I guess it takes time to cure all stuff in good time and hopefully she'll get over this sad episode and be her cheerful nature again.

It appears that when a man cheats, the impugn usually cascade on the husband for not bountiful her hubby the best intimacy. Apart from that, they engage in dealings due to a gloomy home life and communication breakdown. Well, I'm not motto all men are possible to stray. Some women can be just as bad as well. I’m not in the site of giving finding, as I forever believe that you cannot totally understand them except you encounter the same location as they are. So far, my hubby is faithful to me, and we still have that exclusive start between us.

Why are men unfaithful? Boredom? Unfulfilled Desires? Nagging husband? Pretty female with a voluptuous body?